THERAPY FOR MEN IN HOUSTON, TX

STRENGTH GOT YOU HERE.

LET’S USE IT TO GO FURTHER.

Action-oriented therapy for men who want to restore control, focus, and performance—without losing their edge.

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Guy’s Specialties

Though this site highlights my work with men, I provide depth-oriented therapy to individuals of all genders, sexual identities, and races.

  • For professionals in high-consequence roles who need therapy that won’t dull their edge.  text goes here

  • Identity-affirming care for individuals and partners navigating relationship struggles, intimacy concerns, or family dynamics. 

  • For men experiencing performance issues, navigating non-traditional relationship structures, or exploring sexual identity.

  • Practical, shame-reducing work for men whose compulsive behaviors have begun to cost them.

  • For men whose internal narrative about their body is affecting performance, intimacy, or professional opportunities.

  • Specialized care for men who have experienced abuse, including the experiences that often go unnamed, untreated, or feel unknown.

Success is starting to cost you more than it should. 

Stress is piling up at work, and you’re logging on after hours just to stay on track.  

Your relationship or dating life is starting to show cracks. You're distant from your spouse, having trouble performing with partners, or avoiding sex altogether.

Your health is the one thing you still feel in control of, but it isn’t enough anymore. You've turned to secretive behaviors, such as gambling, porn, or behaviors you’d rather not explain, to manage the stress of work. 

But the cost of hiding these behaviors is growing in time, risk, and energy. You already know it isn’t going away.

Every moment you wait to fix this only increases the risk to everything you've built.

But you can’t buy into therapy that asks you to be less of who you are.

Nor feel wrecked for days after a session. 

You don’t have to make that choice here.  

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WHY MEN AVOID THERAPY

Most men wait until there is visible damage to their career, finances, or relationship before exploring therapy. 

Most men feel like they’re expected to show up to therapy weak, broken, or lost—when they need to be the exact opposite to fix what’s happening. 

You need a better approach to therapy. 

One that knows the pressures you face, understands the unspoken rules of masculinity, and is built around your specific psychology and what truly drives you. 

You don’t have time to talk in circles. You need a solution.

Meet Guy Felder

STRATEGIC INSIGHT-DRIVEN THERAPY

Grounded in a prior career in corporate consulting, my practice combines strategic execution with deep-level psychological work.

High achievers don't need generic advice or temporary coping tips. We focus on stabilized relief first, then systematically untangle the root-cause nervous system responses, past conditioning, and internal dynamics keeping you stuck.

I provide direct, highly confidential therapy for professionals who want to perform at their highest level—without sacrificing their internal peace, relationships, or integrity.

WORK WITH GUY

Licensed Professional Counselor-Associate in Texas with expert supervision Dr. Scott Stanley, LPC-S.

RESULTS MY CLIENTS SEE

  • Improved Work & Performance: Clearer decision-making, faster recovery from stress, and congruence between career and life goals

  • Better Relationships & Intimacy: Stronger, more honest relationships, better intimacy, and sexual performance

  • Greater Self-Control & Resilience: Control over compulsive behaviors, freedom from addiction, and a higher threshold for challenges

THE SOLUTIONS I OFFER

THERAPY FOR INDIVIDUALS AND COUPLES

For those who want a strategic therapist to create a direct path back to performance and confidence. We focus on what matters most and move at the pace your life demands.

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EMDR THERAPY

For clients who need to feel relief quickly without sharing every detail. EMDR helps your brain process painful experiences with minimal talking, so they stop driving your life.

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ADDICTIONS

For individuals who need to regain control with minimal disruption over the rest of their lives, careers, and relationships.

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HOW I WORK

Therapy is an investment of both time and money. It can take time to see changes and often things can be challenging before it gets better. The outline below provides a roadmap for how therapy may progress.

Principles of My Approach

🔶 STRATEGIC AND PRACTICAL

I’m here to help you focus on what’s actually getting in the way and how to address it. Work is structured, outcome-oriented, and grounded in your day-to-day reality. Talking is purposeful and focused.

🔶RISK AND CHANGE AS ALLIES

Many view change and risk as obstacles, but I see them as necessary conditions for growth and achievement. Instead of avoiding risk, we learn to leverage it as a source of momentum rather than hesitation.

🔶  SYSTEMS-LEVEL THINKING

Often, the same dynamics that show up at work appear in your personal life, or they interact predictably. We’ll identify leverage points where change will have the greatest impact with the least disruption.

🔶 FROM INSIGHT TO ACTION

Knowledge is important, but not enough. I guide your awareness towards clear decisions and steps to behavioral change, especially around avoidance, self-criticism, and patterns that repeat over time.

🔶 AGENCY AND ACCOUNTABILITY 

Life often presents multiple options, where there is no clear, easy choice. My goal is to help you choose the one that aligns with your goals and build the capacity to follow through on it, even when it’s challenging.

HOW TO GET STARTED

Contact

You reach out and share where you're feeling successful and where you feel out of control. We clarify immediate goals and any constraints to consider in our approach. 

Conceptualize

In the first few sessions, we assess what’s happening, map patterns, and establish a baseline to construct an approach that helps you regain direction and focus.

Commit

Once clear on priorities, you’ll take action on agreed-upon strategies. You won’t just talk about them in my office; you’ll apply them to your career, relationships, dating, and li

The longer you wait, the harder it becomes to get back to where you were.

I’m here to collaborate with you before the costs become too high. We’ll leverage your strengths to solve these challenges so you can restore drive and momentum to your work, relationships, and life. 

COMMIT TODAY

I see clients in-person in the Houston Heights area and offer virtual appointments to all Texans.

Paying for Therapy

How I work with Insurance

I currently accept the following insurances:

Rates

Standard Session: $200

Couples Session: $265

Sessions last 40-50 minutes.

I offer a sliding scale fee structure to clients on a case-by-case basis. Sliding scale rates are reevaluated every 90-days and clients who receive services on a sliding scale must utilize Thrizer while receiving services on a sliding scale. We can discuss this more during a consultation call or during intake.

Locations

Heights Area

Located in a professional building conveniently located just off of 610 with covered parking and discreet entrances and exits.

 

Montrose

Located in a historic home on a tree-lined street in the heart of Houston’s historic Montrose neighborhood.

 

Virtual

Not close to my office? Traveling for work or vacation? Virtual appointments are available via our secure client portal.

(Virtual appointment availability is limited. Must be a resident of Texas)

 

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